...peeling back the layers to reveal the chaotic & messy bits that make living a values-centered, Queerly Complex life free from shame, conformity & punishment possible...
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WTF Is Queer? Exploring #30 of the Tao Te Ching
I'm trying to figure out exactly "WTF is queer?" It's a sticky question. I'm even more uncertain about what it means now then when I moved to San Francisco almost...
WTF Is Queer? Exploring #30 of the Tao Te Ching
I'm trying to figure out exactly "WTF is queer?" It's a sticky question. I'm even more uncertain about what it means now then when I moved to San Francisco almost...

From the Archive: Compassionate Mirror, My Refl...
Originally written in 2010 and republished in 2018, Compassionate Mirror, My Reflection of Q/queer is an unravelling of the how times I've been beaten up and called names are also moments of others...
From the Archive: Compassionate Mirror, My Refl...
Originally written in 2010 and republished in 2018, Compassionate Mirror, My Reflection of Q/queer is an unravelling of the how times I've been beaten up and called names are also moments of others...

Queer Love: A Lifeline for All
To combat spiraling into nihilism from witnessing so much violence, I took a leap and told my comrades, "I love you." It's been a crucial lifeline.
Queer Love: A Lifeline for All
To combat spiraling into nihilism from witnessing so much violence, I took a leap and told my comrades, "I love you." It's been a crucial lifeline.

How Queerly Complex Makes Deep Connections
I'm often asked, "Hey Queerly Complex, how is it you can make such deep connections?" For almost two decades, I've had a really hard time explaining exactly how it is...
How Queerly Complex Makes Deep Connections
I'm often asked, "Hey Queerly Complex, how is it you can make such deep connections?" For almost two decades, I've had a really hard time explaining exactly how it is...

From the Archive with Rupy. C. Tut & Juan Carlo...
This month, I am thrilled to offer LIMITED EDITION tees in collaboration with two of my favorite artists Rupy C. Tut and Juan Carlos Escobedo, so I hop into my archive...
From the Archive with Rupy. C. Tut & Juan Carlo...
This month, I am thrilled to offer LIMITED EDITION tees in collaboration with two of my favorite artists Rupy C. Tut and Juan Carlos Escobedo, so I hop into my archive...

"a-work-in-progress": grief
Staying in touch with my grief, recognizing that all of this is a work-in-progress helps me remember that I want / need / desire is life.
"a-work-in-progress": grief
Staying in touch with my grief, recognizing that all of this is a work-in-progress helps me remember that I want / need / desire is life.