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All We Have at Southern Exposure
"All we have" is a call to be present and notice all that is around us, including the shit and the beauty and the pain and the laughter and the grief and...
All We Have at Southern Exposure
"All we have" is a call to be present and notice all that is around us, including the shit and the beauty and the pain and the laughter and the grief and...
Dear Dad. Happy Queer Pride
As this particular June comes to a close I am finding you amidst all of my memories. I have felt your guidance all month long as I navigate so many different...
Dear Dad. Happy Queer Pride
As this particular June comes to a close I am finding you amidst all of my memories. I have felt your guidance all month long as I navigate so many different...
WTF Is Queer? Exploring #30 of the Tao Te Ching
I'm trying to figure out exactly "WTF is queer?" It's a sticky question. I'm even more uncertain about what it means now then when I moved to San Francisco almost...
WTF Is Queer? Exploring #30 of the Tao Te Ching
I'm trying to figure out exactly "WTF is queer?" It's a sticky question. I'm even more uncertain about what it means now then when I moved to San Francisco almost...
From the Archive: Compassionate Mirror, My Refl...
Originally written in 2010 and republished in 2018, Compassionate Mirror, My Reflection of Q/queer is an unravelling of the how times I've been beaten up and called names are also moments of others...
From the Archive: Compassionate Mirror, My Refl...
Originally written in 2010 and republished in 2018, Compassionate Mirror, My Reflection of Q/queer is an unravelling of the how times I've been beaten up and called names are also moments of others...
Queer Love: A Lifeline for All
To combat spiraling into nihilism from witnessing so much violence, I took a leap and told my comrades, "I love you." It's been a crucial lifeline.
Queer Love: A Lifeline for All
To combat spiraling into nihilism from witnessing so much violence, I took a leap and told my comrades, "I love you." It's been a crucial lifeline.
How Queerly Complex Makes Deep Connections
I'm often asked, "Hey Queerly Complex, how is it you can make such deep connections?" For almost two decades, I've had a really hard time explaining exactly how it is...
How Queerly Complex Makes Deep Connections
I'm often asked, "Hey Queerly Complex, how is it you can make such deep connections?" For almost two decades, I've had a really hard time explaining exactly how it is...